Two years on from their establishment in the aftermath of the local tragedies of late 2006, Tairawhiti Men Against Violence continue to see a need for a community response to family violence. As the group prepare for White Ribbon Day 2008, Gisborne and the East Coast continue to figure highly in family violence statistics.
“We believe that until more local people are willing to do more, our community will continue to be held back by the scourge of violence.” said TMAV volunteer Tim Marshall. “While the tolerance levels have lowered and more people seem to be taking action to intervene there is still a huge amount of work to be done.”
A purely voluntary ‘group of guys’, TMAV have continued to organise events such as the Significant Adult Male (SAM)’s Whanau Fishing Day, Father’s Day activities and provided a presence in support of other community events such as Children’s Day, the Mothers Day Triathlon, Big Boys Toys and the A & P show. Through these activities the group have sought to keep talking about how men can promote alternatives to violence.
Men taking responsibility for their actions is a key theme included in TMAV’s “Blokes Toolbox”, a resource for men struggling to maintain control in stressful situations.
The work of TMAV, the Tairawhiti Abuse Intervention Network, The Gisborne Herald and other local organisations along with the government’s “It’s Not OK” national campaign, have all contributed to an increased awareness of family violence. However, there is still a long way to go before the community even has one day that is violence free.
This year’s White Ribbon Day will include a number of events focusing on a positive future. Monday sees the Gisborne Herald facilitated luncheon at which TMAV will present their ideas for a Men’s Resource Centre. The proposal focuses on a safe and supportive space for men, offering a number of services including emergency accommodation.
Tuesday, sees a number of positive activities happening throughout the day. The morning is about celebrating the gifts that our young children give our community, with a gathering at the Marina Park. White Ribbons will be given out throughout the day by members of TMAV and the TAIN network.
The day culminates with the launch of the ‘Matua’ DVD, are new resource produced by TMAV that focuses on the stories of fathers from Tairawhiti and their efforts to be positive role models for their children, families and community.
“We hope that White Ribbon Day 2008 will provide a catalyst for more people to choose alternatives to violence and to offer help to friends and family to do the same.” said Mr Marshall.
For more information contact: Tim Marshall
